if your friend is feeling depressed, is it ok to invite yourself over to their place? i mean, i respect that he may want privacy. or that he may turn out busy. or that he may prefer to talk to someone else. oh how tempted i am to just go to his place, bring him some chocolate and a movie … and i think i would do it but he lives an hour away. what if i turn up and he’s not there or something? and have to travel all the way back? i don’t know what to do but i miss him, and i want to see him, and i am a little worried about him. and it’s not just that. we might end up kissing and things, which might make him more confused and guilty in the long run … so i don’t know what to do.